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What I find most interesting at this point is the whole dating scene. I am now I do not post a lot of pictures of me but I do have an 8 pack, veins exposed everywhere and shredded. Feeling good about yourself is really the most important thing, because you are probably going to be alone if you find yourself alone at We can all be positive and optimisticbut psychologists suggest practicing alternative forms of sexuality and some openly advocate partner sharing. Cancer, MS or other can happen to anyone incl. You made it very very clear that if a man cannot get hard then he should bother … so if it does work then why would he not go for a much younger, sexier women!?!?
It sounds like several of the ladies on this site have had underperforming men. They are raising small kids and are looking for someone to be a partner. I am 62 and i hooked up with an old man friend from the past who is 64 after a few get together s i was curious to see what this old stallion was about at this age AND what a shocker he had a major erectile dysfunction that is not only embarrassing for him but for me as well.
Dating in your 50’s – easy for men… not so much for women!
And im pretty with long blonde hair. Someday i might hook up with a man who is like me and we can grow older together but i dont wish it or look for it life is too short wasting on the next man LOL LOL. Boy you described me. Bottom line he is 58 and so broken Viagra won t work only surgery or a pump. Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children.
I am not taking any medications. I love my own company and I love to have fun.
Here is what I have found:. Frustrating for me who prefers to be perused but I found by waiting for that they meet someone else. Een easy. These need to be nurtured because chances are there will not be a partner to usher you into old age, and community is probably the most important aspect of successful aging. I want to spend time with a companion, having fun and enjoying ourselves.
Men need sexual attention to complete the connection. Got married at 22 had accumulated properties and businesses only to loose it all during a divorce in no less.
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I wonder why. I am 58 and very horny all the time but not always does it get or stay hard … after 40 ED will periodically happen and older you get the more often … women have the great advantage in that dept as you do not have to be concerned that all will work … your not being very fair. Then you get the men who are in denial with their soft performing noodle. Finding a non-sexual partner seems to be less of a problem, a lot of nice men suffer from erectile dis-function and might welcome an older partner.
Are we sacrificing love for convenience?
He knew I have a high sex drive. Their desire to be with men years their senior means they are looking for someone to take care of them both financially and personally.
I go to Vegas alone 4 times a year and have a blast!! Said he wanted to be friends first and I bought it. I live in Tigard Oregon. I did find a guy this year. I am confident that my soul mate is out there. One of my women friends told me they need a connection. SO the really good looking older men 50 and over with money will pay for Viagra to get a hard manhood and may seek younger women, I am attractive at 62, i like to dress colorful, i color my hair i never had kids and have been single most of my life and i love that independence.
Where do I go to meet people? Well I am 53 Male with no ED issues. Those rare gems who value women with age and experience are just that — rare! Jumped into a LTR for 10 years and lost again. I still listen to Led Zeppelin and Steely Dan.
I am a loner because most of my friends are acting like Grandmas now and i dont have anything in common with them so i have fun traveling alone and meeting people. I am 58 years old and think that the reason many men seek younger woman is that the perception is that as woman get older they have less interest in sex.
I am a newly divorced single woman over We got married, we had kids, we grew apart. There is such a difference between what is available for men and woman. I would really like to meet someone again but my problem has nothing to do with sex or companionship but more so how I was left in the aftermath of my padt.
My last relationship was with someone for 17 years who died after a terminal illness. Is it all about sleeping with men sooner to keep their interest and evolve into something?
Fantastic sex and we never argued. Rather they will be someone who will have realistic expectations of you and be accepting of who you are at this time of your life. Woman need emotional connection to stay connected. For single men the options are plentiful. Is everything online now? Yes they do want you to help raise their kids and do it all over again. At 58 I go to the gym three days a weekkayak, ski, bike,hike, eat healthy and take care of myself. This is my perspective.
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I feel like goldilocks. They will want to grow old with you and have an age appropriate relationship with you. We have been divorced for 2 years and although it saddens me that my family has been broken apart, I am happy that my ex and I have have managed to be civil enough to make it okay for the. She was 8 years older than me. If a man over 60 is not going to perform with a good hard on dont bother!
I am male and dating In my 5os 54 have no sexual dysfunction and am as my female friends say a good catch. The thrill and excitement of a younger woman is so compelling. It seems that this is still the way forward for me.
Dude get that fixed if you want to have fun!! We had an LAT relationship and it worked very well. He hide this and his tiny tiny tiny penis from me knowing all the while his secret and leading me on telling me about the great sex life we were going to have. From my experience there are few men who are looking to date their contemporaries. Billy G is correct. I work out regularly and one question I get asked is my age.
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Where is the happy medium lol. But even though I am trying to date may own age group they all seem to be very intent on having a man who doesnt need sex. Most men are not interested in seeing a Doctor to get that fixed. Lots of interesting responses. We have all heard about how easy it is for a man to start dating in his fifties and how there are plenty of women to choose from.
Love your post Mae West, love your zest for life. Keep enjoying yourself honey, life is short xxxxx. For us older men who still have a strong sex drive and good functioning equipment that can be frustrating. Someone who will appreciate what my age and wisdom brings to the partnership. I told my man friend to do that and he looked at me like i insulted him. Just remember Not all older men have this problem. They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.
So when women over 60 wonder why its hard to find a man THEY are at a bar drinking. The most important ties to make after 50 if you are alone, are meaningful friendships. Would love to hear a guys opinion. Laughter, loyalty and honesty are a must! So I will wait and not settle. If you have money, well that just makes you more attractive. Finallyif can get hard, good looking, fitmoney any 58 man can get a 42 year old women why would they be interested in you and then being emasculated.
Now being so cautious and not having much to bring to the table keeps me out of the dating scene.